Terkadang,
aku berpikir tentang arti pertemanan. Atau jika hubungan itu lebih erat lagi,
persahabatan.
Suatu
hubungan tanpa adanya pertalian darah, namun terkadang bisa lebih dekat lagi
dibandingkan saudara sekandung.
Siapa
temanmu? Siapakah orang-orang yang benar-benartemanmu?
Orang-orang
yang ada untukmu, terlepas seperti apapun dirimu dan kondisimu. Tanpa mementingkan
agama, suku, ras, bahasa dan bangsa.
Orang-orang
yang tidak sekedar berkata ‘aku peduli’, tapi orang-orang yang memang peduli
padamu. Orang-orang yang selalu melakukan hal-hal yang terlihat kecil, tetapi
begitu kau menghayati lebih dalam, tindakan-tindakan itu begitu besar.
Sekedar
sapaan selamat pagi atau menanyakan kabarmu, sudah memberi kesan tersendiri.
Mereka
yang mau mengerti keadaanmu. Biarpun mereka tidak merasakan, mereka mengerti
kesedihan atau kebahagiaannya.
Mereka
yang tidak merasa sayang untuk menghabiskan waktu barang beberapa jam untukmu;
mereka yang mampu menyemangati jiwamu disaat kau lelah terhadap keadaan.
Beberapa
orang menemukan orang lain yang bisa mereka sebut sahabat seumur hidup.
Beberapa bersahabat dengan dirinya sendiri.
Apakah
itu salah mereka?
Tidak,
tentu saja tidak.
Merekalah
korban dari orang-orang yang membatasi persahabatan.
Orang-orang
yang bersahabat hanya dengan yang mereka rasa ‘sama dan cocok’ dengan mereka.
Mereka yang membuat garis pemisah.
Mereka
yang membuat orang lain merasa asing ketika berada di sekitar mereka. Mereka
yang tidak mengerti cara menjaga perasaan orang lain yang bukan ‘sahabat dekat’
mereka.
Aku
membaca banyak buku tentang persahabatan. Orang-orang yang seandainya
benar-benar ada di dunia, maka tidak akan ada orang-orang yang tertinggal
sendirian.
Sesulit
itukah mengulurkan tangan dan berkata ‘mari, ikut kami juga’?
Kenapa
tangan itu terulur hanya bagi orang-orang yang ‘sama’ dengan kalian?
Okay so this one is out of topic, but since this blog is totally for a random purpose (and mine anyway) it should be okay to post this.
Straight to the points. First, a lot of people is expecting SO MANY things from me, I'm okay with that fact but to be honest, not everything the expect is also my expectations.
Second, I can only keep my opinion to myself until I grow up and gain may own money and able to live on my own.
Third, I'm posting it here on my private blog because I'm too sick keeping it for myself, at least posting it on a blog my family don't know can relieve me a bit.
What are those things they expect?
My Twitter bio includes this: "Normal? Nonsense." Why? Because what I think as 'normal' things is a 'deviance' to them (in this case, my family especially my mom) and they think those things as a violation to the meaning of life.
First, I really wants to tell them that my life is MY LIFE, mine and my own. Okay, I know I'm born in Indonesia, lives here and growing up with eastern culture but please, why is everyone really likes to put their hands on EVERYTHING in my life?? I can do what I want with my life as long as I don't do anything rash or criminal. I'm no longer a teenager, I know what is black and white, which is good and which is bad. I also don't understand why most of my family is really fanatic with our religion. I'm not saying that I don't believe in my God but please, everyone know fanaticism leads into chaos. Like about wearing hijab thing. I know I supposed to wear it as a Muslim but please, I am NOT ready YET! I don't wear a hijab doesn't mean I am a prostitute or something right??
Second, my mom is, sorry, making me sick by saying about marriage. Okay see, marriage is a personal choice. Am I willing or not to get married is MY RIGHT. And what I want is NO MARRIAGE. See, I'm sick of males, driving me insane they are. My father runaway when I was 3, leaving me and my mom alone and my mom have to work her way as a single parent, and my step father which my mom married when I was 9 is ALSO driving me nuts. He is, to make it short, disgust me. His family disgust me to my anus. They try to steal my and my mom's wealth, house, ANYTHING they think they can steal. So what's wrong with my choice of not getting married??
Third, I want to live a solitary life. Is that wrong?? NO. I'm sick about "Your home MUST have extra room in case our family is visiting with their kids blablabla..." Okay. To make it short, I DON'T WANT THE TO BRING THEIR SICKOS KIDS AND RUIN MY WELL-ORGANIZED HOUSE. Is that clear enough?
Second review, eh? Well I'm focusing on new MVs, probably I'll do more 'nostalgia' next week after I finish my business with that shitty final exam. (You don't hear that from me)
Today? Hell yeah, it's starring SME dance unit,
Younique Unit
L-R: Taemin, Hyoyeon, Eunhyuk, Henry, Kai, Luhan
With their very first MV, 'Maxstep'
First time (almost) SME whole groups is collaborating, Super Junior, Super Junior M, SNSD, SHINee, EXO K and EXO M
Is the lyric good?
First time I listened to it, well, the music is kinda noisy. And I (really) jumped when I heard that 'BLAARRRGGHHH' which is turns out to be, ehm, Kai's voice. Oh dear God in heaven that's radical.
But it's enjoyable. Taemin prove his quality in singing, and so was Henry. I never guessed Henry to be the one taking the high-pitch note.
YEAAAHHHH~~
Hyoyeon and Eunhyuk, yeah that couple did a great job both in rap and dance. I mean, Eunhyuk's hand is....slapping the air. I mean it's outstanding. If it's me it'll be turn out into slapping my own face.
spins, slaps everywhere
The dance?
Great. As I expected, great dance from the dancers coalition. I really like the part when Hyoyeon enters and then Kai's dance....He looks cute asdfghjkl lol
look at them! kkk~
Every moves is powerful and smooth, well yeah Eunhyuk and Taemin stood out the most but still overall they're great. Maybe if they release second MV, SME can include 'harder' level moves. It'll be a total eye candy seeing those great dancers doing those kind of moves.
Tummy flash! XD
Members....How do they/ he/ she looks?
Let's talk about this one by one.
EXO M - Luhan (Xi Luhan)
Luhan, as cute as always. But I think SME can give him another outfit, a bolder one.
EXO K - Kai (Kim Jongin)
Kai looks waaaay rich with that gold bars couch. His 'badass' attitude really fits that :D
SHINee - Taemin (Lee Taemin)
Is it just me, or Taemin do look five times hotter?? Please, never comb that hair anymore, Taemin-ssi.
Super Junior M - Henry (Liu Xian Hua)
Henry look damn handsome. Extraordinary.
SNSD - Hyoyeon (Kim Hyoyeon)
Flawless. Hyoyeon looks amazingly sexy. That ponytail fits her so much, as well as the hair colour.
Super Junior - Eunhyuk (Lee Hyukjae)
That face, hmm. Eunhyuk looks have exploding fashion on it. Look at that XL size robe and that hair highlight. Lookin' good.
The English lyric...Is it a mess?
Well, not too many English there. Just 'up and down', 'come on', 'hands up in the air', and another 'something in the air' but still Henry's English is great, and Kai's 'We got the place' sounds just good for me.
The MV concept, setting, anything?
Again, NO STORYLINE. Hyoyeon is not there for half of the MV, but when she jumps into the scene, it's flawless. I like the way she flaps her hair, or how she dance on that Y shaped glass tower. The setting is great as SM always do. Spacy~ setting. That glass punching, looks dangerous eh. I don't know why but SM is really into 'punching anything into little pieces'. Ok lol
Is that...a Gorilla?
You'll buy the song?
Again, I already did, but after watching the MV several times.
